Alb & Eric - thank you - I hear what you are saying...but being also the over-analyzer (something else to work on? LOL) I would like to be the devil's advocate and raise the same question again.
Could it be that we stand because we still believe the we can fix it....eventually? ...could it be that we believe in MLC - because it's an explanation for the "fixer" in us why it can't be fixed now?....
Maybe all the people that are telling me that I'm crazy even considering that this is fixable even if H would want to come back are right....Sometimes I'm doubting that it would be possible myself....am I fooling myself? should I just forget about him...write him off and start over right now? Maybe that would be a true sign that I'm no longer co-dependent caretaker, fixer....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
