I'm sorry Zen about the pain right now. Give yourself a break though. You need a little time after the talk! Of course you have been preparing yourself for him to say it but to actually hear it is a whole other challenge.

It sounds like you are already regrouping. Be kind to yourself. You DO deserve better.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."