Oh and I know what you mean about Newcomers...I don't know what to say to any of them right now! I don't think they would want to hear from someone who was divorced anyway!
But "Surviving the Big D" seems to be for people in the stages of divorce, not just those who are officially divorced so come on over!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004