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It's a lot easier to let him in than it is to shut him out.


I so relate to this as I am sure many others will say they do, too! It is why we can get caught up in unhealthy enabling/codepenedent behavior patterns! Easier to be nice, easier to give in to the urge to talk and connect...

just validating (I think?) your feelings!

Now tell us about your date with the meetup guy that you alluded to on my thread!!!Inquiring minds wanna know! cool

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004