A dissenting view from a lot of what I've read, but makes some sense:

Should a Woman Ask a Man Out?
http://www.jackfrombkln.com/should-a-woman-ask-a-man-out/#more-802
[warning: blog has crude title]

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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