Originally Posted By: Mila
wondering is it's some kind of a common trait of us "Standers"...and if it is what does it mean?


It means the only way we can truly make a difference is to STOP trying to fix others and make ourselves the focus. Only then can we truly be whole. And a whole person is WAY more attractive than bits and pieces....


"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"

M18
Me39,H42
D16
Bomb 1/10
Moved out 3/10
OW 6/10
H wants to R,OW gone 11/10
H moves back 5/11
H wants to wear rings again 9/11