Well I talked to W's relative today... Was told W went on a date last week. They were disappointed that she was moving so fast. I'm confident she had been dating during our M, even when she claimed she was "trying". I was also told that she is not good with the kids... Was told they know she loves the kids, but she is not very responsible with them. I was already aware of that, as she had clearly not wanted to be a parent for. Sounds like some of the close people in her life are getting upset at even helping her... She was even compared to her mother, since her mother cheated on all of her husbands and left them in a cold and heartless way. Her mother did send an email saying how bad, she felt and that her daughter was making a huge mistake... I thought it was heartfelt, but coming from a master heartbreaker... I had my doubts.
W and I still don't speak much, just short discussion regarding the kids as we load and unload each day. As i've said, it's like I don't exist and don't matter... I'm NOTHING in her world.
Kids are great, I am ok. I can say content and moving slowly forward. Time & Distance helps.
