Ok! A glimmer if progress... Just asked H if he would read "Five Love Languages" w/ me... At first hemmed and hawed, then I said "Yeah, it took (my friend) leaving her H for 3 months to get (friend's H) to read it".
THAT got his attention. (He had just finished telling me about a colleague at work who dropped dead yesterday at 51, going through a bad divorce.)
well, my hints are getting more direct... Maybe there is hope???
That's good Time! At the risk of sounding like a broken record though, I would do away with "hints" all together...And just tell him flat out how much you're struggling and what you NEED from him.
=O)
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children
