The difference 3 months has made in my life

[TAMF]

The resources do mean something differnt when you go back months later...cause not only is H in a differnt place, I am for sure!

I keep thinking that the biggest change I see in myself in how I deal with my sitch is that I bounce back really quick. In July and August...I couldn't seem to get out of the depression. Now I get sad, talk myself out of if, or someone else does and I am back. That is a good feeling.

Kids are in Chicago with my mom for the weekend - they just text me and they are having so much fun. My mom is the best grandma in the world. She is only 55 years old, so the girls think she is super cool. They are going Shopping all weekend.

SO, I made plans with a girlfriend tonight. I go home real quick to let the dogs out before I go out, and my H is at the house. Weird. Kids are gone. Anyway, he was taking a shower and getting ready to go out (he had just gotten back in town from work). He was going to go out with one of his best friends (who he totally withdrew from the last 5 months)! H said that he called his friend and asked him if he wanted to go have a couple of drinks. WOW. This is a big step for him. This is a friend who told him to get his head out of his arse and go back to his wife and kids.