WOW! You give us all hope and I am envious.

I think what NM said about "when" she has room in her life for a relationship, i am in that same boat. Don't get me wrong i crave affection, a warm embrace and of course sex, but when my two lil babies are sleeping next to me, my boy farting in the am, daughter kicking us while she moves in the middle of the night, I am not ready.

i do wish i had some time to actually do adult gal things but even if i did plan on going out to a movie, it would have to be during the day and even then i would fall asleep during the movie.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline