so i left a vm, apologizing for not being able to call him to tell him that had to turn around could not make it to my house but if he had not turned off my cell i would have been able to.

i also stated until i have something in writing i will continue with the same pick up s and drop offs.

i asked for his attorney's contact info and told him to respond in writing.

i am thinking he has paid a paralegal to prepare the papers to file for divorce. so i should just accept it? meaning he does not want me?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline