HI Opt.

Well, if you are like me, I have made a pact with myself to do what I can to make the holidays enjoyable for me and the kids no matter what.

I am not doing anything extraordinary - just normal stuff. I throw the options out to my H and, surprisingly, he has participated in many of them.

My project had me so busy that we just got our tree yesterday - but it's a start. And, like CHL, the holiday songs hit with great irony. The one I keep hearing is "All I want for Christmas is You".

I hope that all of us here on the BB can give each other some extra holiday cheer to keep our spirits bright.

I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers Opt. I hope that your D is feeling better and that your H has an epiphany. His behaviors do not match his words - but then when does the WAS behavior make sense.

Hang in there. We are all here for you.


totite "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."