GW, you are soooooo right! A WAW who has been in an A cannot depend upon her heart to make her decisions. She must rely upon what is the right thing to do. If she is a Christian or just a very moral person (at least before the A), she has some kind of concept at what is "right". I had to ignore my heart for quite some time, before the brain and emotions came together.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
