While the heavens might part and the earth crack, I agree with Kimee Lee about:
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I think it is inappropriate for her to go someplace where there is always a good chance that he may be there.
If her M was so important, she would remove every situation that might result in "running into" OM. TKD is not more special than any other location to be avoided in these cases.
Pen,
Not saying to take TKD away, but if she is wanting to be married she also needs to assuage your fear and worry.
If she isn't willing to compromise and change a style while you are being ok with her still doing TKD, then there is a worry.
If she is remorseful, she should be willing to pay some sort of penance, be willing to understand your fear and work toward rebuilding broken faith.
Blindly taking them back and at their word is a recipe for disaster later. The burden of proof is on them, not you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
