I think what it was is the fact that the guy she met was an escape and when she realized that I was going to leave the M for good she decided it was not what she wanted. we are going to MC but have to make an appoint for next weeek. She got me a key made for her place, told me to stop by anytime if I am waiting for her. I have slept at her place a couple times, no odd phone calls or anything? She tells me she loves me, missed me and likes that we are starting "over" again and we are communicating well. She has not put her rings on yet but she is staying at our house this weekend as we have her GS's B-day party to go to. Its been real fun so far but the mortgage on the house still looms as the mortgage co is dragging their feet on helping me out. I can't depend on her right now as she has a year lease. I am even on call this weekend and told her she may want to spend the W/E with friends and she refused, wants to hang with me!! If you would have told me that weeks ago I would have said no way. Seems the 38 YO party girl life fizzled pretty quick..
M-49 W-38 No kids together 2 teens live with me from 1st M M-9 yrs lived together 5 yrs Bomb labor day 2010 W moved out the next week to apt Week 4 we start seeing M Co Week 5 she still seeing OM week 6 I drop D bomb since she is involoved Week 7 OM gone we start dating This week she had a key mad for me for her Apt.
