Interesting feeback guys....I just feel like I have analyzed and reviewed and diagrammed for years now. I can't keep doing it. Bottom line, I tried the best I could but he is choosing to pin blame on me. I cannot change his viewpoint, only he can finally decide he has had enough of being angry and being the victim. If that day comes, I will be thrilled, bc our kids deserve a positive, happy father. If it doesn't, I will do my best to give them all I can give them...
So the date is finally taking shape...call me weird but I like to start with a tentative plan, even if we don't stick to it!
Sounds like GG and I will be having dinner/drinks and then meeting up with my cousin and his wife at a comedy club. I know my cousin well enough--we went to school K-12 together--to know that he wants to feel like he had a hand in all of this. It's just how he is. After all, he intially told GG I was 'available' last year on a golf outing. So I think he wants to be there to see his 'handiwork'...
I don't mind, I think it will be a good balance of time just to talk to GG and also some time with friends in a fun setting.
Just wish it hadn't gone from 60s to 30-40s in a matter of days....BRR!
