Messaged him I hope he meets someone who treats him well and I'd rather be unhappy in edxchange for his happiness, that I love him and always will, blah blah. He writes back saying how the only thing he ever wanted was me, that he couldn't ever have me (??), that he asks himself sometimes what is he doing in this world, that I was always and will always be the only one for him.
What? I am lost. It doesn't make sense. What does that mean?
Originally Posted By: ImprovedRomeo
When we fall in love with people, or have crushes on people it's not usually the person we're in love with. It's our own alter ego that we project on them. Hard to explain it in my own words...
So it's like "Fight Club?" I did read that artcile. It makes sense. Thank you for sharing. And I agree the best thing you did was tell your stbx not to share the details. It would have imprinted on your memory in very very bad ways.
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
You are remarkable - your H just needed to do better. And he wasn't even capable of that. Sad really. But you remained a lady.
What do you mean he just "needed to do better." I am confused.
CG, I am so glad to see you back here and glad to see you are moving forward with all your legal stuff. It's astounding to me that your H continues to text you while he's with her. It's ridiculous. What did you say back?
Yes, perhaps he did tell me to relieve the guilt. It hurt me.
