I need him to be a better man and I need him in my life.
Sweetie ... you need to focus on YOU. On building a life for YOU. Become the best person you can for YOU. Make any changes you want to for YOU.
You can not MAKE him want to change. You can not hurry up any changes he MIGHT make. There are NO guarentees.
Tell me .... what CAN you control? What are you going to do for YOU?
Peace PEI
^^^ THAT is NOT what I posted. PERIOD. I only hope you had time to read it before it was gutted of anything that might really hit home about becoming strong emotionally for yourself. The best chance you have of saving your marriage, and KEEPING IT, is saving yourself.
Pfffft. This is getting ridiculous.
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
