Hi Opt..have been so busy with work...sorry to hear youa re down..I know the feelings..about gift, what does your heart tell you? Do you think he will get something for you? My h has started collecting Santas, so I got him a neat one that has Santa with a toy bag and list of names, had both of our kids names on it, so I just had to get it. I used to always buy h clothes, but did not want to give him clothes ..so think of something fun that he would like.