What I think is so funny about my STBXH, is he has been telling me for years how he hates controlling women, and you got it, OW tells him pretty much what to do about everything, or how to handle it. Even Son said, gee whiz Mom, he doesn't like women like that! It gives me a chuckle, and is a good thought when I am low.
The worm will turn here at some point. Nothing you can control for now. Work on YOU. That is who YOU can control.
This time is hard but when you figure things out it is really not as bad as you think.
Even Son said, gee whiz Mom, 
