I'm kind of just journaling today. Here are a few non-negotiables I talked to my MC about yesterday.
I won't give up my daughter's connection to her father just to get my marriage back
I won't give up having my own life outside of my family.
If H comes home he has to stop running and hiding from me. He has been running one way or annother for almost his entire life. Computer games, long work hours, affairs, friends, activities I can't or am not invited to participate in. All of it is running away.
I cannot accept a "you can't hold this over my head" as an excuse for H to never talk about what happened.
I will never be financially dependednt on H again.
