I second everything you've said here... And that is exactly the problem H and I have-- no date nights or alone time whatsoever. Just school activities and meetings for the kids! My kids monopolize our attention in the evenings.
Talking to me definitely attracts and bonds me to a man. I guess that is why OM and I bonded; he was talking to me when H didn't. I want to know he values my opinion and trusts me. I think the attraction comes from that, mental and then physical.
Hmmmm... Right now I'm working on this alone. Afraid to even broach the topic with my H, just have so much work to do on myself right now.
