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#2104932 11/12/10 02:39 PM
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My h told me on 10/8/10 that he wanted a separation. Several times since then he has went back and forth on saying he wants a divorce. Can I still wear my rings? I really want to & did wear them until this past monday when I took them off & put in my jewelry box; but I really want to put them back on. Any advice?

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Hi April,

Of course you can wear your rings. There is a lot of debate on this topic, but put them on and keep them on before too much time goes by.

Do not have the conversation with your H. Be non-chalant if he asks you about them.


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April,
I would wear your rings if you want to wear your rings.
You took them off for a reason.
Have you decided what that reason was?


Me: 41
W: 41
Married: 17 years
Together: 19 years
16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out."
16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out.
31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home!
D 14
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