If my H never comes home...

I will still have my daughter most weekends.

I will still have a home.

I will not have to constantly try to "read" what he is really saying or feeling.

I will have more control of my finances.

I won't have to worry if I am spending too much time or energy outside the home and if that is upsetting my H

I can take the time and space I want to find a new R IF I chose

I can still adopt annother child if I chose to later

I don't have to ask his opinion before rearanging the house

I don't have to cook dinner near as often

I have more closet space

I get more time to myself