She is in fantasy land. Reality needs to slap some sense into her. It might not, but it is your best course of action right now. STAY STRONG. You can get thru this. It is not fun, but at least it is progressing, one way or another, out of limbo land
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11