WAW.. wow #2

[gutwrenching]

Pen -
Could you be misplacing the real issue because your brain associates TKD with the A? Is it really unhealthy for a R where one member has an exercise activity they do a few times a week?

Maybe this is just the fact that TKD is a constant reminder to you of the pain/hurt of the EA.

Maybe talk to your W about that instead of getting angry, making statements like you choose it over M...maybe give your W some options of things that will ease your anxiety and allow her to pursue her interests...