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need him to be a better man and I need him in my life. It's taken me this long to actually admit it.

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but I love this man and want to grow old with him -- but not the way he is -- and I'm not really sure that he can change


You aren't seeing things clearly because you are hurting. This is hard. I am sorry you are here. Many of us have been in similar situations, it sucks, but you can do it. You can become happy again

Last edited by dbmod; 11/12/10 03:11 PM.
M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11