Of course I don't mind that you shared that...however, dont think I'll be suggesting my W watch that movie a few times in hopes she reaches the same point. grin

We had a very good day. W gave effort into things and seemed happy like I hadn't seen in a few weeks. I was happy/relaxed too. At this point, I think its important she go into this trip with us both feeling happy and secure with where things are out, her love tanks filled...cause I know she will be thinking about things a lot...I need to remain the better option.

And if not, she will have chosen poorly and I will be fine.

She did say something interesting that I forgot to write here - she said she really wanted to deal with this and be done. She doesn't want to be thinking about him off and on or be thinking of him still 20 years from now.


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11