Evolve - sounds like you are doing great. Trust me, you have a lot to be proud of. You have seen the light and grasped the reality of things much quicker than the majority. I am envious!
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11