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And also realize that in order for someone to step into the spouse role, it would have to be REALLY worth it, because it would involve some compromise.


Absolutely--and MORE compromise having kids as well as dealing with an ex-H.

I was thinking also- could this experience be the gift of having "hind sight" to bring to a new marriage at some point?

Yet, second marriages have a higher divorce rate than first marriages.... crazy

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004