Why would your H be unsure about switching vehicles? Was he unsure about how to act with you, in general, I wonder?
Well done on the note. I still think about being "authentic" during the DB times and regardless of how your H is acting, the real CW would be appreciative and compassionate about his loss.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004