Originally Posted By: bethann
I need him to be a better man and I need him in my life.


Sweetie ... you need to focus on YOU. On building a life for YOU. Become the best person you can for YOU. Make any changes you want to for YOU.

You can not MAKE him want to change.
You can not hurry up any changes he MIGHT make.
There are NO guarentees.

Tell me .... what CAN you control?
What are you going to do for YOU?

Peace
PEI


Last edited by dbmod; 11/12/10 03:03 PM.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc