Yeah, it will be hard since there is NO money, but the alternative is not an option. Even IF H & I keep civil, there is always the potential of a jealous spouse later on. I also doubt H will take it well if his baby someday starts to call someone else 'daddy'.
One of the lawyers I spoke with said that it is cheaper for her clients to have her do a divorce than to bring in an internet form anyway. She said the forms from online are terrible.
Crazy thing though, I actually feel prety good right now. I am the one who got hit hard last night, but I am recovering. It is my H who keeps contacting me and sounding just a bit desperate.
Anyway, D is down, so I am going to have a glass of wine and write up my GAL plan.
