So they WAS comes home yesterday...he found all his stuff in the garage. He had no option but to sleep in the car in the garage. I feel so free and I know I am alright with God. I tried to save my marriage but it has failed. But I am alright now. I know there will be moments when I will feel so low but I will get thru somehow. Something he did yesterday earlier in the morning...he comes to me and says he was sorry. REALLY! I knew his sorry was not sincere and was only said coz he has nowhere to go. And has no money (he was actally begging me for money to but his fuel.) I told him I wasn't gonna give him anything (that's financing his little vacation albeit indirectly). He spent all the money on the OW on this trip and he thinks I will come rescuing him financially! He has some nerve. This morning I know he will want to get in the house to bathe and prepare for work. Will not let him in at all! If he tries I will call the police on him. So the guy has nowhere to go, no money....feel sorry for him somehow but he made his bed. And he practically has no friends - the OW was his friend and I am detecting a little conflict btn them.