BobbiJo, of *course* it's all about what you're wearing . I think the fixation on what to wear is kind of a ritual to work through getting into the mindset of an occasion. Figuring out what to wear requires gauging the audience, defining the occasion, and figuring out what you want to project. No wonder it's a challenge sometimes!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.