desert_rat, it sounds like she might not be ready. But long distance is an issue, esp when you have a child living at home. Guitarist is coming over more often in the evenings, but of course he is not at all around when the kids are awake. That would be a lot harder to manage if there was an hour of driving each way -- it would really limit already limited opportunities to get together, which would be a shame.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
