Thanks IDU. I'll keep a narrative of how things play out.
My L is supposed to get the initial draft of the dissolution paperwork to me tomorrow, finally. But granted I didn't follow up with him much as I was waiting to see how she responded to her inner conflict.
I'm ready to get on with it. This is the first holiday season that we won't spend together. She gets the kids Thanksgiving, and I get them Christmas. Christmas agreement was a bit of a battle as it falls on a day I normally get them. Normally she drops them off around noon. I asked for Christmas that we not deprive them of the whole experience by shuttling them around on that day. My plan was to have them dropped off Christmas Eve so they could set out stuff for Santa and do the normal traditional stuff. She resisted but eventually relented.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09