*Not only cooking what you want, but not cooking at all if you don't feel like it

*Taking the time just to look a little when shopping

*Not having to walk on eggshells

*Ordering the toppings you like on the pizza

*Not worrying about having to get home at a certain time

This is kind of fun, Mila!

Yes, I'd rather have an intact family, but since I didn't have a choice in the matter, may as well make lemonade!