I know this is foreign to most women... But remember, your heart doesn't have a brain. So you are reacting/acting with your heart instead of your brain. Your brain knows what you should do and need to do and it is strong enough to get it done...but you have to stop thinking with your heart for a while to get there. Make sense?
Ya, I think men should start wearing 'brain' T-shirts and such just as women go around with pink 'hearts' all over the place including on their underwear - how about the "cross your brain" bra for a change. See's Candies should have a brain box of chocolates for Valentine's. Comes back to what Sandi confirmed for me - love us a decision not a feeling - you ultimately make love with your brain. Ah and one more thing - you can't play good chess with your heart either - so the best move would be to quit while you are still ahem ... pardon me ... a head.
