So, I have not been communicating with W since officially finding out about OM.
Then today, she reaches out in text venting to me about several things that she thinks is wrong with me. So, I respond in an email to her - unfortunately, I threw in some past R talk - but mainly about making sure D3 is cared for.
Then she calls me and talks about wanting to be friends and going to coparenting counseling. Then remarks about how what I said in my email shows I haven't really changed. That all my talk about changing and the things I've done in other areas to change are just that - and they aren't the changes she is 'looking' for. Looking for? What? You're still looking for me to change? So, I just listened - we laughed a little at our differences and then she said she will reply to my email with the same way I worded my email (she said jokingly). But she wants to send it to show me how it sounds from the other end. What does is matter? She's gone with OM anyway and defending him. I can't be friends with someone in that position.
