You all were right, i did get the phone records for one month of text messages, the out of town guy was on there several times, but i found another number on there ALOT, so i called the number and a guy answers it so i hang up.

So i ask my wife if she had been texting the out of town guy and she said no just when his kid was sick, i asked her who the other number was and she said a girlfriend, i said why would you be texting her if she was out of town with you. i said i will call the number and see who answers it and i asked why a guy would answer the phone. I asked her to tell me the truth, she would not so i got the packet that had all the text on it, very thick

She told me she fing hates me and i have ruined her life, she cannot have any friends, saying he was someone that was helping her because she could not talk to me. I told her to leave the house, she grabbed the packet and she went to the phone company to change the account. I told her to give my packet back to me and to get out of the house.

Told her is an emotional and she could have been talking to a woman or a counselor alone, she said friend, i just needed someone to talk to.

You all get the picture but i said would you like if i was texting to a woman all day all the time.