Oh, I never meant to even come close to suggesting that I would even want to be a higher priority than her son! I think that her mindset right now is that that she can't do both. I think she thought she could, but has changed her mind. She dropped off if Match (between when I contacted her and when we met) as well. I'm not sure that distance is really the issue. Someday, she will be a catch, though, in my opinion.