I realize that it fuels the drama. I also feel a little fuel to the fire is needed to bust it up. I have nothing more to say to her. She knows what she is doing.

The panic it will instill in my h is needed in my opinion. He doesn't seem to think he is doing anything wrong as long as he is at his moms house. Really I honestly think he believes this.

I definately think lance is right on that he is/was in ow withdrawal. He seems to be able to handle it for two weeks or so and then a depression sets in. The last time they stopped talking she had told him he needed to get help. That upset him.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
Home 12/2010-present