I sent the ow a text last night letting her know that he has been at home the last four weeks and not at his moms as she was probably told and that my h filed the papers asking for an extension from the court. I almost immediately got a text from my h saying "really, WTF?" followed by "your not helping matters Nicole". He is an idiot.
He might be, but he's dead on about texting the ow not helping. She's not worth it and won't listen anyway.
[quote]So here I go. Day one of being as strong as I can for Nicole and not feeding into my h's drama because im positive that the drama is set to arrive before long.
Communication to or about the OW is a sure fire way to get caught up in and actually fuel the drama.