My xw hasn't admitted anything, and I don't really expect her to. I think her point of view, as much as it has been expressed, is that it was a good run, and it ran out. And maybe there is something to that, though I think it could have kept going if both of us wanted it to.
I don't need to hear her apologize. In fact, it might make it harder to move forward, wondering if there was something more I could have done.
Sol, yes I suggested MC. We had actually done it about 10 years before, with no real positive impact. Then in 96 (I think) we went to Retrouvaille, but she wasn't interested in doing the followup, which made it ineffective. At the end, I said tell me when you can go, and I'll arrange it. Somehow, she never could. At that point, I wasn't really interested in pushing it.
