Hey Zen,
I don't yet have the knowledge or experience to give advice. So instead, I want you to know that I am thinking about you a LOT. We will prevail in the outcome of out sitches... who knows what that means as far as the actual outcome. I realize for me that may mean not having this H. As your signature says: Trust the process and have faith.
Try to have a good day.


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."