Hey Zen, I don't yet have the knowledge or experience to give advice. So instead, I want you to know that I am thinking about you a LOT. We will prevail in the outcome of out sitches... who knows what that means as far as the actual outcome. I realize for me that may mean not having this H. As your signature says: Trust the process and have faith. Try to have a good day.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."