Why? Because you have not allowed her to ever feel that SHE has lost YOU for good. It has been the total opposite for this whole time. Believe it or not, it works the same for most people. It isn't until you have felt that you LOST them that suddenly wakes you up. It is the threat of loss that stirs emotions. The other way emotions are stirred is the pursuit of something that we want.
Pookie,
I recalled something in my sitch:
When I truely thought is was over and had made the decision to move on, our mutaul friend told W that if she is still uncertain about me she better make a move b/c W about to lose all chances with me.
I received the call the follow week. It was a weak attempt, but she did reach out.
So the feeling of losing someone is powerful. Be strong during the moving out and remember it's not over just b/c your not living together.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
