Well 2 days and i havent spoken to her other than to respond to her goodmornings and goodnights. She did tell the kids she was going to a friends. Funny thing is they havent skipped a beat. Its like she wasnt even there.
So i am trying to give her space right now. She claims to be staying at a friends. The only confirmation i have to that is i told the dealership that i wasnt paying her arrears on her car and they should pick it up and sell it. I would pay what the loss is and take it out of the settlement on our home. They did go to pick up the car, the OM said she no longer lived there and he didnt know where the f@#@ she was check with me. So thats the only confirmation i have that she's not at OM home. I am afraid i will have to break down and pay for the car, as i am still on the lease and it will effect my credit.
I am still not sure what i am supposed to do here. I believe that i should stick to my boundary and until she breaks it off with the OM. So i guess i continue with my life.
