BABH,

Welcome. Isn't that the strangest thing. To see a man you have spent the greater part of your life with do the complete opposite of everything he has ever said, done, acted, or claimed? Mine went country/rodeo, and he's a heavy metal fan. Wouldn't even step near Brandon, Mo. for fear of getting some on him.

You will get all the support you need here. Feel free to come and vent anytime. Weekends are slow, but there is usually someone around. The very fact that weekends become slower are encouraging, because that means more of us are out GAL'ng then sitting home hiding under the covers.

One thing I believe with all my heart and soul. Menopause has nothing on MANopause.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011