I am really happy for you! H is really making some changes and last year at this time, you probably would have never thought he would have done everything he has done. Are you where you want to be yet? No, but it took a long time to hit the bottom and it will take a long time to get out. Plus it is always easy to fall down, when you climb back up there can be slippery spots where you fall back a little, but you are still moving up. Who knows what will be next? It is exciting to see.
Just remember to communicate. So if you are upset and need some space, instead of being short just tell H that you will get back to him tomorrow or can we talk tomorrow because I am tired. Now it isn't the complete truth, but it will give you time to cool off and think about how to move on. Remember...48 hours so leaving it be for that long, maybe the situation, as this one, will work itself out. Just don't think you can't say something like I really want to hear from you, but I am so tired tonight can I text you tomorrow?
Have a great day TODAY!
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